When we moved to Philadelphia, it was like moving to a foreign country. We were so far away from family, surrounded by many different cultures, and lived in a city that was set up so differently than any other we had ever lived in. It was a whole new world. The one thing that helped us adjust to our new way of life was the people that we met at church. We were surrounded by the most amazing people who instantly became our family. Everyone supported everyone, everyone served and gave so much to help others, and we were all in very similar situations. For the most part we were all families struggling to put our husbands through graduate programs with young children far from home. We were amazed as we watched our friends serve as Bishops and Relief Society Presidents as well as other busy callings at church. The women would send husbands off to early morning church meetings and then get the children ready for church before driving to the ghetto to pick up Liberian refuges to bring them to church. Everyone gave so much. There were no excuses not to serve or help others. They were amazing examples to us and we learned so much from everyone around us. We were so grateful for our friends. The friendships we made in Philadelphia were the kind you cherish forever.
In Philadelphia, Caleb also found his true love. When we first moved to the area, we met a family that had a little girl named Reese that is Caleb's age. The two year olds quickly became friends and loved to play together. Every Sunday they would hold hands, and Caleb would take Reese to Primary. Eventually they began talking about getting married. Reese even had a wedding dress picked out and Caleb would talk about what temple he was going to marry Reese in. It was a sweet little romance and they were the best of friends. We were sad when Reese's family moved away.
Caleb and Reese in March 2010 a couple months before her family moved away. The sweet 3 year old friends.
We were so excited when Reese's family let us know that they would be visiting some other Philly friends in Dallas and suggested we should all get together. We were so excited to have a little Philly reunion! We had not had the chance to visit our friends in Dallas yet and it was going to be so fun so see our friends.
Caleb was particularly excited! Although we hadn't seen Reese in almost 2 years, Caleb was still determined to marry her. He regularly talked about her and talked about when they would get married. If any other girl mentioned they wanted to marry Caleb, he would tell them that he was only going to marry Reese. Other girls were just out of luck. Reese was also just as devoted to Caleb. She would also talk about him and about marrying him someday. The two were so excited to get to see each other again. Caleb told everyone he could that he was going to see his girlfriend.

Last Saturday as we were beginning to prepare to leave for Dallas, Caleb walked into my room in a suit and red shirt and announced he was almost ready to leave. I was told that he only needed a church hat and a flower. When I asked him why, he said he needed to look nice to see Reese. When he found out that we probably wouldn't be able to find a church hat, he decided he wanted to get 2 red flowers. One to give to Reese and one to go on his suit pocket. Unfortunately we were not leaving for a few hours and the trip would be 3 hours long. So we convinced Caleb that it would be ok to change back into his suit when we arrived in Dallas and that we would buy a flower there. Being 5, when we got to Dallas, he just wanted to get to our friend's house and no longer cared about flowers and his suit. But he sure was cute that morning!

Caleb and Reese were a bit shy at first but quickly warmed up to each other again. They play so well together and really are great friends. On Sunday, Caleb again escorted Reese to Primary and he has informed us that he still wants to marry her. His parents can't deny he has pretty great taste. She is really cute and her family is as good as they come.
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| Brinley, McKenna, Caleb, & Reese |
Old Philly Friends!
It was so fun to see the kids play together and become friends again so easily. Philly was truly a bonding time for all of us. We have 8 kids all together. I missed getting a photo before the little ones were in bed and tired.
Obviously the kids enjoyed being together!
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| Murray's, Christensen's, & Manning's |
It was quite a full household but was a great trip. The adults even got a night out together and we all just enjoyed sitting around talking. It was nice to catch up and see where our new careers had taken us. We are so grateful to know such wonderful people and that we can call them our friends.
Thank you Murray's for putting up with us all and letting us all crash at your house!