Sunday, November 15, 2009

Literacy, West Africans, and the General Relief Society

I had to make sure I posted this experience before I forgot it and because I really did need to do a post about my dear African friends. Shortly after moving to Philadelphia, it became apparent that there was a real need for someone with experience teaching people how to read and write. Our ward has a population of West African members who have never have the opportunity to ever be educated. In Africa any type of education costs money and most were too poor or too busy fighting a war to learn how to read and write. However, now that they are in America, they have found themselves surrounded by a society where education is vital to survival. They struggle with having their basic needs met, finding respectable jobs, understanding traffic signals, or how to navigate anywhere outside of their homes. Since teaching is a bit of a small passion in my life (my husband just chuckled), I decided that I really, really wanted to find a way to help these people. I wanted to teach them to how to read and write. So after lots of meetings and visits to West African homes, it was decided that twice a week we would have a class of 8 West African students come to our home and have "school". My little "school" opened in March and has been a huge learning experience for me. I have taught the alphabet, basic writing skills, and gone a couple field trips. No miracles have occurred and I have struggled to keep the members of the class coming regularly but as I reflect on the experience there have been small gains. The women from my class can speak English more clearly and feel confident enough to now answer the telephone or dial a phone number. They told me one day that they finally figured out what those red and green lights mean that are on the streets and they are all around more aware of the American life they are surrounded by and have been for the past 5-6 years. It is amazing what a perspective of learning does.

This week I had the rare opportunity to meet with Sister Carole Stephens from the General Relief Society Board in my home for a small private meeting. During this time I was able to share with her our story of the Little West African Literacy Class and all the struggles and successes that we had experienced over the past few months. I was able to share with her our need for a basic literacy program curriculum that could be used for people like our West Africans with no educational background. Our amazing Relief Society President was also able to meet with us and she was able to describe the dynamics of our ward and her experiences from all the wonderful service she as rendered to our area. Sis. Stephens was everything you imagined a member of the General Relief Society to be and it was an amazing experience to get to meet with her and share our efforts and trials with her. I don't know what effect our meeting will have but I am so grateful for the experience.

Philadelphia has definitely opened up a whole new world of culture and experiences that I never knew existed. It has been a huge blessing in our lives to meet and serve these amazing West African people.

Live in Thanksgiving Daily


I have been meaning to do this post for a while now but just never got around to it. The past few weeks for our family have been emotionally tough. After we found out about our second failed IVF attempt, we found ourselves with a lack of hope for our future and completely lost about what to do next for our family. During this time I remembered a talk I had studied for a class at BYU about being thankful. Since November is a month to focus on being more grateful, we decided to challenge ourselves to become more grateful. For our first Family Home Evening in November we read the great talk I had studied previously, it is "Live in Thanksgiving Daily" by Elder Wirthlin. He gave this talk at a BYU devotional while I was there and then I had the chance to study it for a class later. It is a beautiful talk about making gratitude a daily part of our lives. That night for FHE we started a Thankful Jar and every night before we go to bed we each write down something we are grateful for. It has been fun to focus more on all the things we are thankful for like Thomas the Train, dishwashers, a wonderful spouse, welcome home hugs from Caleb, and the gospel in our lives. We also have started to say only prayers of Thanksgiving. It is amazing all the things that come to your mind as you say only prayers of gratitude and don't ask the Lord for anything. We challenge everyone to become a little more grateful during this season. What are you most thankful for? What a blessing an attitude of gratitude has been for our family during this time of sorrow.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

A Thomas the Train Halloween



Well I finally got the time to show off our fun Halloween this year. Caleb is obsessed with Thomas the Train and so he decided to be Thomas for Halloween. I decided to make the costume and set out the big project of creating my son's costume to his precise specifications. We did have a lot of fun making this costume. Caleb helped me paint the boxes and anything else he could do. It was so fun to watch him get excited as Thomas came to life. Grandma was a big help when she came to visit and the finished product was amazing. The best was watching Caleb be so proud and excited about being Thomas the Train!

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Grandma Manning Visits

We were fortunate enough to have Brydon's Mom come visit us for a couple weeks and help out during our Invitro process. We got to do a lot of fun activities in between everyone being sick. Grandma does not like pictures being taken but I was able to sneak in a few fun action shots!

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